I have often fallen prey to the thinking that this young woman writes about. Thinking that I am making the wrong choice. I have come to see like she did, that is about what I am learning and becoming, not walking a strict path of just this career, buying the right car, and so forth. The critical thing is to avoid the dont’s and do the do’s but there is a wide variety of choices in the do’s that are up to us. Drugs, alcohol, pornography, and such can destroy our ability to choose and wreck our relationships but I don’t think God cares too much if we work as a doctor or a writer.